As a parent and a dietitian I talk a lot about the importance of healthy eating with my kids. “Eating your vegetables will help you grow big and strong; too much junk will make you tired and hurts your teeth.” At ages 2 and 5, we keep it pretty simple. It seems like talking to kids about healthy eating can only be a good thing, but it can be taken too far, especially in the mind of a child. I ran across an article from the NY Times discussing how in some children certain messages around food makes them fearful to eat. I’ve counseled children that have this very same issue. They are confused and feel that eating certain things - such as sugar or pesticides - will lead to very bad things, like dying. They become extremely picky eaters and even malnourished as a result of avoiding so many foods. We want to do only the right things for our kids and help them to stay healthy, so what’s a parent to do and say?
To begin we need to examine our own relationship with food and try our very best to develop a healthy, but moderate way of eating and way of talking about eating. It can be a challenge especially as you’re trying to take off a few pounds. If your kids are still young, now’s a great time to start working on it because like it or not, you’ll be the biggest influence on just about every aspect of their life and development.
For my family and myself, I try not to talk about foods as good or bad but those that are healthier and better for you - staying positive. We work on balancing the treats with healthy foods and nothing is completely off limits. So a cookie for dessert is perfectly fine as long as you’ve eaten some of everything on your plate, especially a nice helping of the vegetables. This is really a good approach for adults too - developing a healthy relationship with food will always be about balance and moderation. Mainly, think about the way that your relationship with food and the way you talk about food impacts your children. For example, buying organic can certainly be healthy for your family and the planet but steer clear of scary terms like pesticides or chemicals. Whether organic or not, we want our kids eating lots of fruits and vegetables - never afraid thinking they’ll be poisoned by them. So, stay positive in what you say and start your healthy (moderate) relationship with food today.
Tags: healthy eating, kids, organic, relationship with food, sugar


